If you find yourself falling into the role of household manager by default, you might consider a concrete division of labor.

Dear Abby: My husband, “Andy,” and I have been together 25 years, married for 16. We have three kids ages 14, 11 and 9. Our marriage has always been a happy one. Andy began a government job five years ...

When I try to bring it up, he says he’s just “under a lot of pressure” and that it’s temporary. But it’s been almost a year.