Meghan Markle is catching heat for referring to herself by her former royal title in a gift to a friend. “I find it a little cringe to give a gift to a close friend and sign it, ‘Her Royal Highness,’” The View co-host Alyssa Farah Griffin said on Tuesday’s show.

While the estranged royal family members appear to use the HRH status privately on stationery and other notes, a Sussex source told Page Six that Prince Harry and Meghan Markle do not ask people to call them that. They reportedly insist on being called “Ma’am and Sir,” though sometimes others still call them HRH. The insider said:

Prince William reportedly doesn’t have any intentions of playing nice with Prince Harry and Meghan Markle when it comes to their “HRH” titles. William, 42, wants to strip Harry, 40, and Meghan, 43, of their “Royal Highness” titles when he becomes king,