How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, My husband and I are in our early 40s. We have been together ...

To my husband on his first Father's Day: watching you with our little one fills my heart with so much joy. You were born to be a father. It's so amazing to see the man I fell in love with as a dad.